Molly Piper

So I’m realizing that having a bigger family means that sickness seems to last FOREVER!

It started a few weeks ago when Orison had the runny eyes and nose and a slight fever. Then it developed into a cough. But before he could get over it, Morrow & Whit joined the party and decided to not be outdone by their brother.

And picking up the rear, me and Cadence are on the mend.

We haven’t been to church as a family in three weeks. Which means we really haven’t gone anywhere, because it’s too difficult to take all the kids out anyway. And if they’re miserable and moody with colds…forget about it.

So this week, I’ve been nursing a yucky cold and have thus been silent in the blogging world. I love you all, but I need to take care of me and mah brood first.

So, here’s hoping we’ve seen the last of it (for now) and I’ll be posting more next week. Have a lovely weekend, all!

And to you Minnesotans, enjoy the warm-up (upper 30s, yee-HAW!)!

I can’t believe that it’s been six months since I had these two little babies!

It’s been a blessed, albeit crazy, six months with these two rascals in our lives. I wish I had more time to write and reflect on their life today. Most of my day’s just going to be taking care of them! And that, my friends, is such a gift. There seems to be a million needs around me at all times, but I’m so honored and humbled that I get to mother these children.

[Photo credit: Katie]

As many of you know, last weekend I traveled to Birmingham, ALABAMA!!! (A couple times during the weekend I’d think to myself, “This is really surreal–I’m in Alabama….)

Did you know that the license plates say “Sweet Home”?

Growing up in the North and not traveling much as a child, it’s still weird to me that I get to go on trips and see new places (especially places that are so different than ones I’m used to). I love that! I was the navigator for my little duo (me & Shannon, formerly/presently of Rocks in My Dryer) and it was so delightful for me. And no GPS, I’ll have you know! I like the adventure of exploring a new place, and even getting a little bit lost.

There’s something about cell phones and GPS systems that makes us rely less and less on each other and more on satellites and Google. Now, I’m all for those tools, don’t get me wrong, but I like having to stop and ask a random gas station worker for directions. I like getting to have that conversation about where I’m from, what brought me to Alabama, etc. It keeps life interesting!

Anyway…

Your prayers were answered! My time in Birmingham was exhausting in a good way and refreshing in all the right ways. Spending time in the Word and being with new and old blogging friends was amazing. I was in awe most of the time, marveling at just how good God is, allowing all of us to be together and get to know each other better.

And some of the best news came on Saturday night at our little (awesome) Compassion get-together dinner. Through the blogging trips that Compassion has done, 5,000 children have been sponsored. That means that God has worked in 5,000 of you to change the life of a child in poverty, probably someone you’ll never meet. But you will change their life!!! It was such fantastic news.

Here’s a picture of our group (the ones who were able to make the trip to Birmingham):

You can pop over to Shaun’s site (the guy in at the top left of this picture) to get descriptions of everyone in this picture. But let me say this: I love these people. LOVE them.

And My Man (taking my cues from Beth Moore here) kept the home fires burning through the weekend like he (almost) didn’t even need me here. He hauled all four children to the Christmas tree lot and brought a beautiful tree home and set it up so that I’d be surprised when I got home on Sunday night! And making room for a Christmas tree required some furniture re-arranging in the living room, which he did beautifully! Seriously, my man…he’s incredible.

I wish I had more time to tell you about the weekend. But as I type there’s some people who need me.

This weekend I have the privilege of traveling to Birmingham, AL for a Beth Moore event called Deeper Still.

The main reason I’m going is because there’s a group of Compassion Bloggers doing a reunion during/after this event. Here’s what I’m looking forward to:

• Getting to meet one of my blogging mentors (seriously, she helped my blog so much) Shannon, along with TONS of other awesome people who’ve done Compassion Blogger trips.
• All of my blogging teammates from my El Salvador trip will be there!
• Meeting some of you??? If you’ll be there, come say hello. I’ll probably be lurking somewhere near the Dayspring booth at times.

But, as you all know, I have 4 children, 2 of them infant twins. So how am I making this trip happen? Well, it takes a village (or a small army sometimes). I’m very deeply thankful for:

• My amazing husband, who’s braving all four children alone. I have full confidence in him as I leave, and I’m so thankful for that. AND, the fact that he wants me to go and have fun. If the tables were turned I’d be whining and probably annoyed that he was leaving. He makes all kinds of joyful sacrifices on my behalf, and I’m so thankful. Love you, Abraham!
• My awesome in-laws, who donated their frequent flier miles to help me pay for an airline ticket. With twins arriving, times are kinda tough for us financially, and my in-laws are always so generous and gracious. Thank you, John & Noel.
• My mother-in-law and my sister-in-law taking care of all four children tomorrow while Abraham’s at work. You are so great with them, and I don’t have to feel nervous about their care at all.
• My friend Shannon in Minneapolis, who’s driving the car pool both ways tomorrow and taking care of Morrow during the morning kindergarten time. Shannon, you have such a gift of servanthood. You’ve made this transition to twins so much easier by loving and serving us. Thanks for helping me get this time away.

Also, I’m really looking forward to time in the Bible. Since the babies have come, my times there are brief and infrequent. In no way do I feel like my roots are deep, and I don’t feel very strong. I feel like I really need this time for the sake of my soul.

Please pray for my small army and for me as I travel. As much as I am excited, it’s hard to leave. I’ll miss my family!

And hopefully I’ll be seeing some of you in Alabama (which is a state I’ve never visited, so I’m getting to add a state to my list! YAY!)

So maybe this is just a plain ole parenting tip, rather than having to do specifically with twins, but it happened to me yesterday (with one of the twins) and so it’s being grandfathered in with the twin tips.

Abraham writes:

If your baby is inconsolable and you’ve done everything for them that you can think of, check their fingers and toes to make sure there’s no hair twisted around any of them. (And on boys, check the penis, too.)

This is called a hair tourniquet. It cuts off circulation and is about as uncomfortable as it seems like it would be.

In my case yesterday I was able to remove the hair from Cadence’s finger pretty easily, though the indentation remained for a few minutes, making me check and double-check it multiple times to make sure I’d gotten it all. Scary!

Feel free to share your favorite hair tourniquet stories in the comments!

In my last post about surviving twins, I revealed a grave error: I put a kid down on a sheet without something underneath his head. That’s a rookie mistake, friends.

Now ordinarily, especially when I’ve had spitty babies, they don’t lay down ANYWHERE without something under the head to catch the nast. Which leads me to…

Twin Survival Tip #2: Have a ridiculous amount of burp cloths available.

You can choose what kind of burp cloths you want, but just know that you should have more than you think you’re going to need, and keep them in multiple convenient places throughout the house.

In my experience I buy the jumbo pack of white automotive towels from Costco. I think it comes in a pack of 60 or something insane like that. I paid about $20 for the whole pack. They aren’t the softest towels ever made, but they’re absorbent. They’re also plain white, so if they ever need a good bleaching, it’s no problem.

They’re also useful for a quick, on-the-fly changing pad. Because when you have twins you’re not going to haul the babies upstairs to their changing table every time they need a diaper.

They sell the white towels at Target in the automotive section as well, but they don’t come in massive quantities.

Keep this in mind for a baby shower gift for the expecting-twins mom. I got a huge tub of white automotive towels for my first baby (a singleton). They were rolled all cutely and neatly into a tub with a few other small gifts. Just be sure to wash them before you give them, because they will need it to fluff up a bit and look nicer.

You could also accomplish the same thing with cloth diapers. They’re definitely softer, but probably more expensive.

Chime in! What do you use for burp cloths? How many should you have (approximately)? What do you use them for?

Twin Tip Submissions: If you have a suggestion for surviving twins, contact me!

This kid is so cute it kills me.

Just when I wonder, “Could he be any cuter?” he puts on a “dino suit” and voila!

I came across a post this week that explains how to make your own dishwasher detergent. It’s a pretty simple mixture.

I might try this for a couple reasons:

1. I hate buying dishwasher detergent.
2. I don’t get out much anymore, so this might last longer.

I have my hesitations for a couple reasons:

1. I don’t want to put money and time into making it if it’s not going to work well.
2. I’ve never used powdered dishwasher detergent (always liquid).

So, what do you think? I figure Friday’s a good day to post something like this, since you might be out on errands this weekend and decide to pick up the materials, and it’ll be fresh in your mind. So, I ask you:

• Have any of you ever tried this? or something similar?
• Have you had good results with this kind of concoction?
• Do you plan to give it a try?

I’m thinking about doing it. If I do, I’ll try to remember to let you know how I like it! The one trick she talks about that I definitely intend to try is using white vinegar for a rinse agent instead of the chemical one.

Happy weekend, all! It’s supposed to be a fantastically gorgeous weekend here in Minneapolis. I hope it’s lovely where you are as well.

The twins are 9 weeks old now! Here’s what they look like today:

Last week I hurried up and snapped this, thinking, “Hurry, hurry! No one’s crying–take a picture!!!”

The babies are doing very well. They are growing and waking up a lot more. This week Cadence has even given us a couple smiles that seem voluntary rather than reflexive!

The babies are dropping one of their nighttime feedings, I think. The last couple nights they’ve slept and just woken up one time during the night. It makes such a difference, I feel like a new woman. But I hesitate to even type this, because you know what’s going to happen tonight…they’ll wake up every hour or something.

Last week I got mastitis for the first time in my career as a mother. On the whole, I don’t recommend it. Not a very fun time. I never could fully sympathize with friends who got it, but now…mother! It’s HORRIBLE!

Whit has reflux. He’s super fussy after feeding and very spitty-uppy. He’s now on Zantac, which won’t help the volume of spit-up, but will at least help with the pain.

I don’t have time to write much more right now. I hope all of you are doing well!